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What if I don’t like my stepkids?
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 3/31/23 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 3/31/23

What if I don’t like my stepkids?

Don’t like your stepkid? You’re not alone! Here’s 5 legit reasons why that can happen and what to do when you don’t love your stepkid.

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6 things stepparents wish their partners knew
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 5/30/22 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 5/30/22

6 things stepparents wish their partners knew

Learn 6 truths about stepparenting and blended family life we wish our partners understood.

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Should stepparents discipline their stepkids?
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 10/16/21 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 10/16/21

Should stepparents discipline their stepkids?

Are stepparents seriously not allowed to discipline our stepkids? Even though we share a house with them??

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Why your relationship (NOT the kids) should come first in a stepfamily
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 9/12/21 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 9/12/21

Why your relationship (NOT the kids) should come first in a stepfamily

Should your partner or the kids come first in a blended family? Here's why your relationship needs to take top priority.

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(Step) Love actually
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 12/23/20 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 12/23/20

(Step) Love actually

Love in a stepfamily is different… so maybe it’s okay for stepparents to fake love till we feel love.

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5 transition day tips for stepparents
BECOMING BLENDED, STEPARENTING BURNOUT & RECOVERY Blended Family Frappé 9/27/20 BECOMING BLENDED, STEPARENTING BURNOUT & RECOVERY Blended Family Frappé 9/27/20

5 transition day tips for stepparents

Your stepkids’ transition day is hard on everyone — including stepparents! These tips can help lower those stress levels down to a less insane decibel.

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What's a stepparent's role, anyway?
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 8/23/20 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 8/23/20

What's a stepparent's role, anyway?

It took me years to realize that what I wanted my role to be as a stepmom and what actually worked for me, my stepdaughter, and our family were two very different things.

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3 ways to tell your partner you're disengaging
STEPARENTING BURNOUT & RECOVERY Blended Family Frappé 8/5/20 STEPARENTING BURNOUT & RECOVERY Blended Family Frappé 8/5/20

3 ways to tell your partner you're disengaging

Need to take a step back from stepparenting? Here's 3 ways you can explain disengaging to your partner in a positive way.

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Why does my stepkid hate me? 6 reasons why stepkids reject stepparents
BECOMING BLENDED, STEPARENTING BURNOUT & RECOVERY Blended Family Frappé 7/30/20 BECOMING BLENDED, STEPARENTING BURNOUT & RECOVERY Blended Family Frappé 7/30/20

Why does my stepkid hate me? 6 reasons why stepkids reject stepparents

Worried your stepkids hate you? Weirdly enough, just because your stepkids reject you doesn't mean they actually hate you!

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The signs that point us toward blended
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 4/15/20 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 4/15/20

The signs that point us toward blended

I spent years frustrated that our stepfamily didn’t feel how I thought a family should feel. I wanted a clear sign we were blended. Little did I know we already counted as a “real” family!

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Why does stepparenting feel so counterintuitive?
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 3/11/20 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 3/11/20

Why does stepparenting feel so counterintuitive?

So much about stepparenting feel like we’re blending our family wrong or messing our stepkids up. How can we move past that?

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When are you considered a stepparent?
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 2/12/20 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 2/12/20

When are you considered a stepparent?

At what point are you considered a stepparent? Do you have to be married first? How many hoops do we have to jump through before we’re acknowledged as an important part of our stepkid’s family?

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Why stepparents need a break too
BECOMING BLENDED, STEPARENTING BURNOUT & RECOVERY Blended Family Frappé 1/10/20 BECOMING BLENDED, STEPARENTING BURNOUT & RECOVERY Blended Family Frappé 1/10/20

Why stepparents need a break too

Why does society think stepparents aren’t allowed to ever feel tired, ever feel ready for a break, or ever have mixed feelings? Stepparents, you deserve a friggin’ vacation.

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Let's stop acting like "stepparent" is a dirty word
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 1/5/20 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 1/5/20

Let's stop acting like "stepparent" is a dirty word

Do we really need to call ourself "bonus moms" instead of "stepmoms"? Let’s stop apologizing for the very valid role we play in our stepfamily and own the stepparenting title with pride.

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Inventing new blended family holiday traditions
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 12/22/19 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 12/22/19

Inventing new blended family holiday traditions

Our blended family invented new holiday traditions only by letting go of our ideas of how we thought the holidays “should” be celebrated... and when.

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8 stepparenting tips I learned from Game of Thrones
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 5/26/19 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 5/26/19

8 stepparenting tips I learned from Game of Thrones

Now that we know how Game of Thrones ends, looking back at the beginning brings up all kinds of obvious-in-retrospect foreshadowing. Kinda like blending a family.

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You don’t have to love your stepkid to be a good stepparent
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 9/21/18 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 9/21/18

You don’t have to love your stepkid to be a good stepparent

As much as we assume that every good stepparent unconditionally loves their stepkids from day one, that's NOT the typical experience. Love is a bonus, not a requirement.

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Why everyone in a blended family needs to let go of "should"
BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 9/5/18 BECOMING BLENDED Blended Family Frappé 9/5/18

Why everyone in a blended family needs to let go of "should"

Is hanging onto your idea of how your stepkids "should" act or how a stepparent "should" feel about their stepkids keeping you from enjoying your blended family?

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